I was born a woman, so what?

I've been reincarnated! It seems to be another world!! In my previous life, I was an ordinary woman in her forties, but in this life, I'm a handsome man with high specs. Wait, I'm still a woman in this life, aren't I? Yet I'm constantly mistaken for a man. Well, that's fine. More than that, I can't suppress my old lady mentality, and I end up sticking my nose into everything. It seems my self-control has weakened since my reincarnation... though I haven't gotten into any dangerous situations because of it. Huh? There's no danger? Because this isn't just any other world, but the world of an otome game? Who's a capture target, you say? What? A flag crasher? I don't know anything about that. Since I've been given a second chance at life, I might as well enjoy it! I'll live freely as I please!! This is a story about a former middle-aged woman who, unaware that she's been reincarnated into the world of an otome game, unconsciously destroys various flags along the way. ※The author has played very few otome games. Please understand that the settings are based entirely on vague impressions. ※Since this story is purely convenience-driven, the content may be shallow. Those who prefer deeply explored stories may find this riddled with things to complain about, but I'd be happy if you could watch over it with warm eyes. ※Expressions involving child abuse will appear. Please be cautious if you're sensitive to such content. ※There may be discrepancies regarding laws compared to reality. Please understand this is a fictional work set in another world, and I'd appreciate it if you'd take it lightly. (Changed synopsis on 2015.2.5)